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I’ve been sitting on this post for a minute, and this one might ruffle some feathers.
In my early days of doing Jiu-Jitsu, I used to hate all of the odd formalities that we to do in the sport.
I came from a wrestling background, and in wrestling, the only real formality is a handshake between you and your training partner/opponent to signify the start of a round/match.
That’s really it.
In Jiu-Jitsu, as I started to train and travel and see different places, there were so many weird things that I was expected to do at certain gyms I went to:
I had to call some random guy I just met “professor” as “a sign of respect”
I had to bow a bunch
I had to move for higher belts
And much, much more
I didn’t like all these things, but I thought that it was because I was young and naive and that I didn’t understand respect. I thought that because I didn't like all the dumb traditions at different BJJ gyms, I was the dumb one.
Nowadays, I am not so sure.
Here’s my definitive list of the most problematic “traditions” in Jiu-Jitsu:
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